Reader Question:
i have been seeing he for around 90 days now. We found online and just lately chose to not see other people. We actually delight in each other and beginning to present our very own individuals.
He could be still productive throughout the dating website we found off of. The guy admitted to having relaxed discussions nonetheless frequently. I’m not a jealous or vulnerable individual, but it has sort of hit me personally completely wrong.
Should this bother myself?
-Ayra (Vermont)
Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Response:
Ayra,
Should this frustrate you? Definitely! They are nevertheless playing the field on the internet and searching for more substantial, better package.
In my opinion you need to call his bluff. Make sure he understands his words of exclusivity indicate nothing if he or she is still solitary using the internet. Declare that you two relocated to fast and tell him you are thrilled to get back on line too, if the guy believes keeping single is the most suitable.
Oh, and another thing, end having sex with him.
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